First: Do you ever wish you could change a situation and you can't? The reason you can't is because it's not your situation to change but it still affects you and those in your family. I'm not perfect but I know that the decisions we make will affect our happiness. I really wish this situation would change, but it takes forgiveness which has to happen on both sides not just one.
Okay onto the next topic: Visiting teaching. I spoke with my Mom today and gained some great insight that I'd never thought about. I love to go visiting teaching but it's still a good reminder. My Mom is a visiting teaching supervisor in her ward and she says the numbers have dropped and the men are doing better. She mentioned that as we are in the temple we make covenants. We covenant to give of ourselves and to build up the kingdom and we can do that through our callings. So if you don't fulfill those callings you are breaking your covenant. I never thought about it that way but it makes sense. So how can those who are temple recommend holders not fulfill their visiting teaching calling?
I love visiting teaching handouts. This is a poem I'm attaching to a bag of goodies for this month.
Halloween
is coming with it's ghosts, ghouls and sweets.
And
everyone is searching for the best of tricks and treats.
But
take a moment now, and lend a listening ear,
For
there is a special ghost, that always lingers near.
The
Holy Ghost is a companion, who will guide you on your way.
He
will be there for comfort, be it night or brightest day.
So
listen for the promptings, of your quiet special friend.
He
will always be there, On him you can depend.
Have
a Happy Halloween,
Love
your Visiting Teachers.