To let you know what I'm referring too here's a joke:
A clergyman was walking down the street when he came upon a group of about a dozen boys, all of them between 10 and 12 years of age.
The group surrounded a dog. Concerned lest the boys were hurting the dog, he went over and asked "What are you doing with that dog?"
One of the boys replied, "This dog is just an old neighborhood stray. We all want him, but only one of us can take him home. So we've decided that whichever one of us can tell the biggest lie will get to keep the dog."
Of course, the reverend was taken aback. "You boys shouldn't''t be having a contest telling lies!" he exclaimed. He then launched into a ten minute sermon against lying, beginning, "Don''t you boys know it''s a sin to lie," and ending with, "Why, when I was your age, I never told a lie."
There was dead silence for about a minute. Just as the reverend was beginning to think he'd gotten through to them, the smallest boy gave a deep sigh and said, "All right, give him the dog."
LIES. My kids are telling lies. I'm not talking about things like when they say: I'm a superhero and I can fly. That's just their imagination. It's when I ask "who did this" and they say "he/she did" when they did it. It's hard when you can't tell who is telling the truth. You can't believe them since they have already lied about something else. I know they just don't want to get in trouble and we keep telling them that they will be in bigger trouble if they lie about it. Tonight we will have an FHE lesson on it but if any of you have ideas on how we can stop it please share. They are great kids so I don't want this to sound like they are constant liers. We just want to take care of it now so it doesn't get out of hand. I hope that makes sense.